Ok so I hate this. People saying “Oh, it looks good on you”. Because honestly how can you not look good as your natural self. I don’t understand. But I do understand knowing what you can wear and can not wear. I understand stay away from thing that do not accentruate your features. But how can chemcial free hair be one of them. Your hair is as unique as your fingerprint. I never hear anyone say I can’t wear any other part of their body. I have come to the conclusion that its all in their mind. I once was one of those people who thought I couldn’t live without a relax. I had to quit “cold turkey”. Initially, I was more terrified of what people would think than anything. After delievance of my fears, I began to embrace and love not only my hair but all of me. God created me “fearfully and wonderfully”.
I said “No ma’am because I dont comb it.” To optimize my curl definitation I don’t comb my hair. Her response was you have good hair. WHAT!? No, I just know how to take care of my specific hair type. But I can’t get mad at this woman’s ignorance. She like so many others has been conditioned to believe straight is better, more managable. And that having a small curly pattern is nappy.